I usually write down all the sweet/cute/funny stuff the girls do. This will be different. I want to have something to refer back to if the kids ever ask later on why they didn't have more siblings. Lol.
Ok, so Sydnee loves to learn and wants to know everything about everything. If I can't constantly entertain her she gets grouchy. She doesn't like to go off and find her own things to do. I love her eagerness to learn and I'm glad she likes to play with me, but some days are so hard when she follows me around saying "What are you going to do with me? I'm bored. What are we going to do?' and then continues to question me on all the wonders of the world. She talks and talks and talks and talks and talks. All. Day. Long.
Then there is Kaydee. Wow, does she have red hair for a reason. She is very independant and wants to do everything on her own. But when it's something she just can't do she gets SO mad. She goes into tantrum mode. Her tantrums usually consist of crying, kicking the floor, and sometimes yelling at me.
Just yesterday, Kaydee was playing on the computer and I told her the volume was up too loud. Without even looking at me she says "you'll live." Wow. Then a bit later she was sitting on the arm of the chair and fell off. She was crying and crying and told me that she just wanted me to catch her. (I was no where near her). So she blamed me that she fell, and then she tried to bribe me by saying "I will stop crying if you give me a treat." I told her no, that isn't how it works and she started crying louder and said "I WON'T stop crying then!" A little later she kept trying to pick Maycee up and Jeff told her no and she kept doing it and ended up dropping Maycee. So Jeff got mad at her and put her in time out and she was in her room freaking out saying "I don't want you to ever talk to me like that again! I don't want you to ever put me in timeout again!"
And my sweet Maycee has gotten into the "No" stage. She yells no at all of us, including the dog. Me and Kaydee were playing a game where she would run and jump on my lap and hug me. Maycee got jealous so every time Kaydee would come running she would hurry and get on my lap first and yell "NO!!" She also has red hair for a reason. Her tantrums consist of either going and hitting her head against something and then crying, or more recently, rolling all over the ground crying and yelling no over and over This morning Kaydee didn't want her getting markers out of the drawer and Maycee got mad and pulled her hair. She pinches her sisters sometimes too.
Then there is the fighting between them. This morning Kaydee and Sydnee were singing in unison "I'm never gonna talk to Kaydee ever ever ever again." And "I'm never talking to Sydnee again. I'm only Mommy and Maycee and Bosco's friend." All day long they do the "If you don't give me that, I won't be your best friend anymore!" Then pretty soon, they aren't best friends anymore, they are never playing with each other again, etc. And within minutes they make up and then start all over again. Lol.
That being said, their sweetness for sure outweighs their attitudes and at the end of the day they are good kids and best friends.
Sydnee came home from school today and pulled something out and said "It's a valentine I made for Kaydee!" Then handed to her and Kaydee was so excited and they gave each other a big hug. Melts my heart!!